fix hardening-no-fortify-functions debian lintian warning

fix return exit value, shared libs cannot use exit, but return instead

Some typos fixed

Remove libqt4-opengl from dependencies

This is automatically pulled in by python-qt4, pyside and others

build: fix semantics of AC_ARG_ENABLE (issue #63).

This makes sure that ./configure --enable-clibs does not instead
*disable* c libraries, as it did before. This is important for
packagers as the usual semantics is for --enable/--disable to both
work and do the right thing.

See https://www.flameeyes.eu/autotools-mythbuster/autoconf/arguments.html
for the proper semantics of the macro.

Using DESTDIR standard location

Helping distros to package the source